Reply To: What Occurred with cclarry Yesterday

[peter]

After recruiting Fleer to contact Larry and then finding out that Larry was behind putting Jeff JIH64 up to hate posting on this site and sending me more than a dozen hate filled emails entirely based on lies Larry told him about what happened with Larry claiming that I had become political and have abused my power with the site, I have made the decision that it’s not realistic to bring Larry back to this site. He doesn’t share the values of respect for others, for not using this site to talk politics, for not being toxic. I will share the final email I sent to Larry. I didn’t spend time carefully crafting it. I wrote exactly what I feel.

Here it is:

After seeing that you were egging on Jeff JIH64 by lying about what you did and being extremely malicious, I cannot in good conscience ever allow you back at the site. I’m sorry for how things turned out. But I have come to the conclusion that I don’t think you’re a very good person. I think you were never a friend based on that email. I think you are a fraud. And I won’t have you back to use you because you post prolifically, I don’t want to use you. Everyone knows that your obsessive level of posting isn’t mentally healthy. As much as I’m pissed off at you, I have enough respect and empathy for you that I would not use you. I think most people aren’t focused on you as a human being and your mental health, they enjoy the fruit of your obsessive labor and, and on one level, realize that this isn’t a mentally healthy way for you to spend your time, but they enjoy what you do so much, that they put all of that aside. I was about to do that for my own convenience, when it occurred to me, it’s not right for you and it’s not the right thing for me to do.  It’s sad that you spend your life doing that, and I’ve tried to persuade you to do more with your life. You shared with me you have kids that you haven’t spoken to in more than two decades. Take this time and reach out to them. That’s meaningful. This really isn’t.

 

Now, if you wanted to call me up as a friend, I would welcome it. But I’m not going to use you when I no longer think you’re a decent person and I’d be lying if I said I could ever trust you again. If you wanted to speak as a friend, while I do have a lot of very negative feelings about you, I do feel sad about your life and have compassion for you. BTW, when you wrote that pure BS that I’m lonely, are you aware that I”m married — once, never cheated, married to my best friend that I met 28 years ago — with two kids. I can’t go to the bathroom and be alone — our family cat follows me in (seriously). Pure BS. The lies you tell. I really loathe people lying. Maybe somehow in your imagination you created a fiction you think is reality, but that’s not reality.

 

I do wish you better things in your life and that you spend your life more productively, more meaningfully. I think your enjoying vacations is great. I hope you do more things to enrich your life and don’t just spend it making deals posts and posts on Facebook about politics that no one is reading or liking. It’s pointless. Live life. It’s short and gone before you know it.

 

Regards,
Peter

 

 

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